So the days and days of waiting were almost over. The day they were to meet was finally here, but the hours were crawling by. They had come up with a plan, that if anyone heard it, would think they were insane.
Both of them had been unlucky with conventional meetings. The bars, the coffee shops, the being set-up by friends, just hadn’t worked for them. They had been doing the on-line dating for a while, but neither one held out a lot of hope for finding someone who enjoyed what they enjoyed. He was into fantasy and she was looking for someone or something creative, still unaware of what she was searching.
How many people are into fantasy? And how many are willing to admit it? I would suspect very few would be that honest, but if truth be told, everyone has done it at least once.
They met by accident while they were both on-line – a chance meeting of kindred spirits of sorts. He made the first move and sent a simple “Hi”. She replied back the same, and then the normal set of questions ensued – “what do you do?”...”what is your favorite colour?”...”How long have you been doing this?” They knew the routine by now. But there was something different about this pairing. He made the first move into fantasy land, and she was looking for something new and exciting. She didn’t even really know what she was looking for, but it couldn’t be routine.
They eventually left the IM system that is included with the on-line dating service, in exchange for a Window’s messaging service - more private. They could then get a little more personal once they felt safer. He was gentle with her, teaching her a new skill. He moved slowly and gradually he got her to open up, and let go.
It is safe in fantasy land. There are no bad endings, just limitless possibilities, as endless as the creativity of the minds involved. There are some ground rules or parameters for the game but they are discovered along the way. A simple “I don’t like that” or a “No” is all that it takes to change the course of play.
Just imagine your perfect partner and what you would like him or her to do or say. How would you like them to treat you or touch you? What would you whisper in their ear if no one were listening? Where would you touch them if there were no conscience telling you not to? How would you react to their touches if you could just let go…and be?
That is the world of fantasy. If you find the right person to play this game with, you will enter a 'Zone' where reality and fantasy are intertwined, becoming one. It will lift your spirit to places you didn’t even know existed. Your body will be reacting to the auditory and the psyche – without so much as a simple human touch – so much so that you are driven to heights of excitement you never knew existed. Each invisible touch, sound, smell is intensified by your mind because it is free to feel it all without having to worry about physical reality. You are in a dream but yet awake.
Have you ever had an erotic dream and awakened before it was ‘over’, and then tried in vain to make yourself go back to sleep and rekindle the moment from the dream? Sure you have – because it just felt too go to let go. Well, fantasy gives you that dream and you can always get to the ending, because you are in control.
It is as addictive as a drug but without a single side-effect, except for a smile and a feeling of innate happiness.
So, were they to meet in reality or fantasy land?
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